Entitled woman tries to evict roommate so her boyfriend can move in, claiming she shouldn't have to leave because she ownes majority of the furniture and gardens, even though they split 50/50: 'The person who wants change should facilitate it'

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Emma Saven
Aug 5, 2025 1:00 PM EDT

Just here us out…

I'm really starting to believe in this mystical creature called the Entitlement Fairy. Like, I honestly believe this fairy enters the womb and sprinkles entitlement glitter over certain babies. Then those babies are born and grow up into adults who truly believe the world revolves around them. I really think people must be born with it… because wow, there's no other explanation for this level of entitlement. 

After this girl signs a 50/50 contract with her roommate, a year and a half later she decides that she wants her boyfriend to move in with her…alongside the miraculous expectation that her roommate will quickly pack up her whole life with a smile, give them both the biggest embrace and say, 'Wow, thank you so much for letting me pay rent and share a lease with you, but now that you've decided you want a change, please don't leave, it's truly my fault that your boyfriend wants the space I've paid for!'

Like, WHAT?!? The fact that this girl genuinely expects her roommate to move out at the drop of a hat, claiming she has more of a right to the apartment cause she planted some cactus in the backyard… I'm losing faith in humanity here guys!

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  • So how does one go about confronting this situation?

    There are two possible methods that we can think of:

    Either a.) Let entitled people win by allowing them to do whatever they please by agreeing to all of their unfair terms, or (and this one, we are highly fond of) …b.) fly to space, get hold on earth's axis and bring it to a quick, sudden stop, so you can prove to them the world no longer revolves around them!

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    AITA for refusing to move out so that my roommates boyfriend can move in

    My roommate and I split our lease 50/50 and currently month to month as we have been living here about a year and a half. Last
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    week she sat me down and told me that her and her boyfriend want to take the next step and move in together. As she was
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    telling me about it she told me I need to leave and find a new place to live. I am refusing to leave as I believe that the person
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    who wants change is the person that should facilitate that and that I should not have to uproot my life by finding a new place as well
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    as spending the money to move in order to make that happen for her. She says she is entitled to stay because she made a garden
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    in the backyard and does the majority of the yard work, also. most of the furniture is hers. These are things I have taken into
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    consideration but ultimately decided I want to stay. I also made it clear I was okay with her staying and her boyfriend moving
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    in since she already has the master bedroom but they want to live alone without a roommate.
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    windypine69 who's on the lease? and, if the bf had to apply to live there, would he qualify? and who was there first? nta, but somethings gotta give.
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    Adventurous_Age_3694 OP We moved in together so neither of us were first and we're both on the lease. Her boyfriend would definitely qualify though.
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    Puzzleheaded-Ad7606 Tell her either she pays ALL your moving costs- movers, deposits, boxes, time off- or she can be the one to move.
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    Solid-Feature-7678 Contact you LL and update them on the ongoing situation so that your roommate can't doesn't submit a 30 day notice in your name behind your back.
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    AgeBeneficial Point to some rocks in her garden, then, tell her to kick them.
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    cynical_overlord 1979 ΝΤΑ She's not more important than you. It is not her house to kick you out of, you have the same rights to the space.
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    If she wants you to move badly enough, she could offer to help financially and practically to make it happen (assuming you were ok with that) and also give you your half of the security despite back. Otherwise she can move herself.
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    JBB2002902 NTA, but please speak to your landlord and see if you can get a longer term lease and make it clear to him that you won't be moving on. I wouldn't put it past her to tell him you're leaving to end your lease behind your back.
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    ThatDarnTiff So when they break up, is she going to be asking you to come back?
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    SafeWord9999 Let her know she can pay for your moving costs as her romance is costing you money and legally you don't have to go anywhere, but you can sure make life uncomfortable for her
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    BMal_Suj ΝΤΑ You live there, you don't' have to be good with getting kicked out of your own home...
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    Zestyclose-Height-36 Nta, if she doesn't want to be roommates, she moves.
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    MarionberryOk2874 Her reasoning that she's tended to the garden and most of the furniture is hers is laughable...it's almost like she knows she can't actually kick you out. The one who wants a change is the one who moves.
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